Just in case your missed it, my wife and I are the people who will be directly affected by the decisions being made by our Supreme Court this week. The court will look at the legality of DOMA (Defense of Marriage Act) and California's Proposition 8. These laws are emotionally hurtful and legally crippling to us. We love each and have built a life together and we deserve the equal right of being married. I think you get the point. Stand for equality my friends.